Long ago I dated a guy when I was 19. He was the best guy I had ever dated. While things were going quite well, we were torn from each other by things that we had no control over. And no he never cheated and neither did I.
Well, as fate would have it, we recently ran into each other online. He is interested in getting together after all these years. So we chatted via the phone for a few weeks getting caught up. We have a lot in common, many things have not changed between us. We have both been married and divorced. However, we still "click" together like birds of a feather. Except one thing that he mentioned, he said monogamy is hard. Well, my heart sunk. I believe in monogamy in a serious relationship. I cannot change who I am, nor will I ask anyone else to change for me.
He was always a gentleman, I respect him and he also respects me.
I tried to say we should be friends, but he wants more. OK, I see red flags, although he claims i’s not impossible to be monogamous, I cannot help my fears, I don’t want to feel as though I am setting myself up for another disaster in life. Especially by someone I think so highly of.
What do you think? What would any of you do? I appreciate all of your time and patience. Thanks in advance!
We are both grown adults, both been married and have had children. Just thought I would add that for your consideration.
Edited to add: In the past when we dated, we were in a monogamous relationship. I know neither of us had it easy with our marriages.
We both ended up being single parents. Perhaps life changed him? I appreciate all of you helping out here.

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I bought tickets from Ticket Liquidator to the Transiberian Orchestra concert this weekend. Last year I bought the tickets through Ticketmaster, and they were the regular blue, card stock tickets that are the size of a movie ticket. This time through Ticket Liquidator, they are regular pieces of paper with a bar code and the concert information on it and they say "Venue Presale" at the top. I also checked through everything on the ticket and none of the usual "fraud" red flags are there (i.e. misspellings, grammatical errors, missing logos, etc.)

Has anyone ever bought tickets through Ticket Liquidator? Do venue presale tickets usually look different than the regular tickets?

I really hope someone can help me…I bought these tickets as an early Christmas present to my mom and my in-laws.

Thanks!

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anyone know of websites besides Craigslist and Ebay that are legit?
I found OODLE.COM and it seemed to be okay but on 4 really good deals that I found the people claimed to be going through ebay motors and every email once we started the transaction were completely different they all copied the logo from ebay but the lay out of the emails were all different and they would ask for the receipt of a money gram before they would do anything else (according to ebay you should never send a money gram or western union money to anyone)
So I saw the red flags but I REALLY want a motorcyle and it sucks to find these good deals and then not be able to get the bike because some dumbass somewhere is scamming people. Please help me find a website so I can find my dream bike, If you have personally bought a bike from one that you mention can you tell me the details of how the transaction went down?
Thank you everyone for your answers.

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Hi,

I would like to know if any ‘real’ people have used this company or knows someone that has or better yet, still is.

My boyfriend is ‘contributing’ to this company and I’m having my doubts. When I read the papers they have sent, stating what ‘his’ lotto numbers,etc, nothing but red flags pop up in my mind. (Their monthly letters are not even on business letterhead or have any kind of business logo…HELLO!)

I’ve done on-line searches and there were only a few comments, but it seems like ‘free’ advertising from someone who has affiliation with this company. (Again the red flags)

I don’t think this is valid, I should say, I don’t think they are living up to what they claim is their ‘potential.’ (Yes, I’ve checked the BBB, there were 6 complaints, but it’s limited information).

Personally I think it is another ‘scam’ taking people in at a few dollars at a time, and reaping the rewards off of people like my boyfriend. (Bless)

Thank you for your time and any comments are greatly appreciated.

Take care.

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Or do you see any red flags? I’m not great at reading these reports. Vehicle is a 2006 Hummer H3 with approx. 13k on it. Thanks for any help

Carfax:

http://www.carfax.com/VehicleHistory/p/Report.cfx?vin=5GTDN136768160310&partner=DLR_3&zipCode=

Autocheck:

07/15/2006 CA 83 Motor Vehicle Dept. ODOMETER READING FROM DMV
08/10/2006 UPLAND, CA Motor Vehicle Dept. REGISTRATION EVENT/RENEWAL (Leased Vehicle)
08/12/2006 CA Motor Vehicle Dept. TITLE (Lien Reported)
08/25/2006 CA Motor Vehicle Dept. TITLE (Lien Reported)
07/16/2008 UPLAND, CA Motor Vehicle Dept. REGISTRATION EVENT/RENEWAL (Leased Vehicle)
11/02/2009 MI 13,041 Auto Auction REPORTED AT AUTO AUCTION
11/25/2009 UPLAND, CA Motor Vehicle Dept. REGISTRATION EVENT/RENEWAL (Leased Vehicle)
12/09/2009 CA Motor Vehicle Dept. TITLE
DUPLICATE TITLE (Lien Reported)
03/29/2010 PACIFIC SW REGION 13,044 Auto Auction REPORTED AT AUTO AUCTION AS MANUFACTURER VEHICLE

Here’s the vehicle:

http://hummer.bobmoore.com/used/HUMMER/2006-HUMMER-H3-e0cdc20a7f0000010080bc28ef3cc953.htm

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When I left Catalina Island the other afternoon, there were two red flags flying at the dock.

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Within the last two days, I’ve had an explosion of pop-ups on Firefox–pop-ups that appear in both Firefox and IE windows. Now, i know I’m running an outdated Norton antivirus, but this still doesn’t explain why I am just now getting a ton of pop-ups. I didn’t get any red flags when clearing up my processes menu in windows task manager, and I’ve noticed no strange new programs in the control panel tool>add or remove programs. I’ve already applied the Tools>Options>Block Pop Ups & Load Images on the firefox menu, and i just installed the ad-on "flashblock", though this doesn’t solve the pop up issue. My Norton Pop-up blocker and auto virus protection is on, and still, i get pop-ups. HELP!

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My stepmother got her registration taken away for like 12 months! I don’t know why, but she says it is because she didn’t have insurance on it and was driving it without insurance. She just got approved for an auto loan and called me and asked me if I would let her register her new car in MY name. I know it would help her with taxi expenses.

It seems a little bit stupid of me to let her do this, but I’m just not sure why… Is there a reason why red flags are going up?

She says that the insurance could still be in HER name. I live in NY.

Also, if you could tell me what excuse I could use NOT to do it so that I don’t offend her that would be great…

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With the red flags because you biggest track is falling apart. Then all the green white checkered! Thank god other things were on the tv.
i watched it, and the end was great. I am complaining more about the the 2 red flags because the #1 track is falling apart! I just could not take DW talking anymore!

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I took my xbox 360 into a local repair center about a week ago. I went in yesterday and when I asked "what was wrong with it?" they replied "I can’t tell you, but it was bad." Right away, red flags went off. The original estimate was -0. The final price was 5. I know in auto repair, they are required to return any broken parts to the customer upon request. Do these same laws apply to electronic places? Do they need to tell me what they did to it? On the initial sheet they gave me where I filled out what was wrong with it (RRoD), at the bottom there is a section "to be filled out by employees" about what they did, but this section was left blank. The store owner signed this sheet.
Thoughts about what I should do?

*Note: I have already paid the 5, but I plan to go back in tomorrow and raise some hell.
i already paid and it was the owned i dealt with.

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