I’m am a gay women. Since I began dating women, I seem to get involved with the young women who seem to want to feel that they are being controlled or told what to do. I am currently dating a girl with no history of dating women and she always wants me to make the decisions and be assertive and dominant in all aspects. Passivity makes her seem dissatisfied and her mood quickly modified when I take on a dominant role again- here is a part in the script where I make her happy again:
Her: Baby, where do you want to eat?
Me: I don’t care. You’re the hungry one.
Her: Tell me where.
Me: Pick a place and park the fricking fracking car.. NOWI!
Her: Okay (happy again)

I am not very masculine. I’m a dork and I don’t have a mullet or a chain wallet or keys dangling from my belt loop. I don’t even look very lesbionic. I have no gay friends and subscribe to no rainbow flags via stickers or banners. But, the girls I date seem to want to bring something else out of me. Why!!
No offense to women who sport the fashions previously mentioned. Just illustrating my lack of butch-ness at present.

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I broke up with my ex becuz he emotionally abused me, lied constantly, and cheated. While we was together he had sex with his ex without a condom, he claimed she forced him to do it! I was stupid and took him back, i caught him giving his number out to girls on facebook he apologized and cried when i tried to leave so i took him back, yesterday i needed him and i was really sad and he acted nonchalant, i tried calling him he didnt answer and when he finally did answer he cursed at me and used profanity he claimed he didnt hear his phone ringing, n then said he was getting a tatoo.. so i let that slide n i called him back hours later and i could hear girls in the back ground he rushed me off the phone didnt say I love u like he always does and he didnt call me baby once he talked to me in a friendly manner he didnt even say my name! it was like he was trying to persuade others he was talking to a dude or a friend on the phone! I called him back plenty of times after that no answer until 4:30 am was he with a girl??? i confronted him about it because i have noticed he has been acting very distant lately its like he has been spending time with someone else, for the past couple of weeks he has been busy, to tired to talk, not answering when i call claiming he felt asleep. I broke up with him today, and instead of him screaming and being upset like he always do he was very calm to my surprise and said ok fine if that makes u happy?????omg does that mean he already had someone so he doesnt care>

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I realize most of my questions and answers are usually within either the auto repair or computer categories. These are the 2 areas I am able to help with and ask about. I never considered my current situation as something I could ask about. I don’t like throwing my family problems out there. But I do need some advice from others who might have been where we are.

So, my wife and I were parents of an only child. She was probably what you would call the luckiest girl around when she was younger. She was captain of softball, cheer leading, tall flags, drum line and everything else she was involved with. Yet somehow she got involved with the wrong person and became a mother at 17 and again at 19. Both times we were given custody of the children. Both girls.

My wife and I have continued raising our grand daughters. Both of whom have fallen into their mother’s footsteps. At ages 13 and 15 they are both active in sports, cheer leading and music. I enjoy watching them make the very best of life on life’s terms.

Recently our daughter has decided to "clean up" and wants to be a part of her daughter’s lives. It would be okay except I can not trust her. I think it is important that she is a part of their lives. But they are at a point now where I want them to continue all the good things they are doing. I don’t want her dragging them down.

But at the same time, maybe the girls are what she needs to put her life in order. She is 32 now. So what do I do? Either way I am putting someone at risk

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Girls Party Theme Ideas For Ages 8 – 10

Have fun with a girl’s party theme for ages 8 – 10. Make your little girl and her friends, superheroes for a day. Send out invitations that are calling for all the superheroes to come and help the party host fight the bad guys. Hang posters on the walls that have female action heroes on them. Need a list, well start with these: Super girl, Wonder Woman, Bat girl, Storm, and The Powerpuff Girls. When the girls arrive put a colorful cape, made from a plastic tablecloth on each one and give each girl a half mask in a pretty color. Have balloons of all colors, along with silver and gold, tied in bunches floating on the ceil,. Hang Streamers in sprinkling colors. On the walls between the posters put colorful signs that read “WOW”, BAMM, and POW. Watch DVDs of cartoons or movies that have female actions heroes.

A girl’s party theme idea for ages 8 – 10 that everyone will love is making jewelry. Little girls love to play dress-up and what better way than with jewelry they have made themselves? Be sure and purchase several age appropriate jewelry making kits. When the girls arrive have music in the background. Ask your little girl what she wants to hear playing at the party. Have streamers hanging from the ceiling and balloons tied to the chairs. The number of tables you need setup for jewelry making supplies depends on the number of guest you have coming. You will need at least one extra adult to help, more if there are a lot of little girls. Have all the girls watch you make a piece of jewelry, go slow so they can see each step, then let them start making their own. Each child should have one or two pieces by the time refreshments are served. For the refreshments have fruit juice or pink lemonade, with sandwiches and cupcakes that have sprinkles on them.

Who say that 8-10 years can’t still be princesses? The princess theme party is still one of the best party theme’s for this age. Send out invitations that are shaped like a crown. As the little guests arrive give each one a cape made from a plastic tablecloth, a wand and a tiara. It would be a good idea to show a DVD of a princess movie. You have several different ones to choose from. Have cutouts on the walls of castles, rainbows, and flowers. The decorations should be pink, white, and silver. Use pink plates, with silver cups and white napkins. This would be a good party for a piñata. Since these princess are still kind of little you can opt to use the pull string piñata instead of the one you have to beat with a stick. Fill it with candy and party favors like plastic bracelets and necklaces with hearts and stars on them.

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We used to lightly date each other, so its nothing new…but she has an exclusive relationship now, so its a little different. I think she is a player type and wants to see if i still like her or if i will be around as a door mat… what do you guys/girls think?

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All you have to do is be friends with teachers (or act), try to be nice but not to nice don’t want to be a door mat, and be really nice to girls if you know what i mean!

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What’s trendy this year in Girls Shoes?

Every year women can look forward to exciting new styles of fashionable footwear for the upcoming season, and this year is no different. There are some lovely trends that have become classics in the past few years, and surprising new details that are unique to this season. Take a look at some of the trends for girl’s shoes this year.

Zippers

Zipper detailing is a great trend that has become more popular in the last couple years. They are a wonderful way to give your classic shoe a bit of an edgier appeal for a nighttime look. Look for shoes that have just a few zipper details along the sides or that have accents such as flowers made from zippers.

Cuffs

Cuffs are not the actual shoes, but the accent on it. Cuffs go around the ankle and can be found on a great range of different styles. For example, you can find simple sandals with a cuff that are ideal for summer dresses to give you that bohemian, carefree look. They can also be found on really daring high heels for a more sophisticated, glam-rock appeal. Cuffs are definitely a hot trend for this year.

Nude

Nude colour shoes are not necessarily new this year, but they are still the look for this season. Just check out any red carpet event – you’ll see tons of celebrities sporting a lovely pair of nude pumps or sandals with their hot dress. Nude shoes are a great staple for any closet, and can be paired with most outfits. They are particularly good for balancing out a look with a dress made from vibrant colours and bold patterns.

Feminine Touches

If you are a girly girl, this year you have great options for shoes. Designers are loving feminine details on shoes this year, from lovely little bows to fur trimming to lacy accents. You will find these girly touches on a great range of different style shoes as well – from beaded sandals to peep-toe boots.

Bright Suede

While nude seems to be the biggest trend for colours this year again, people who like to make a statement will be happy to know that big, bold, bright colours are coming back into style. Colourful suede shoes have been seen gracing the catwalks and shops, with green and blue making the biggest splash. To get the most from this look, be sure to go with a shoe that is one all-over colour to avoid looking garish. You will want these shoes to stand out for themselves, making them ideal for wearing with a little black dress or a pair of skinny jeans.

Nautical

The nautical theme can be seen everywhere this year, from stripey shirts to embellished handbags. This year designers are also making nautical-themed shoes that incorporate cork, rope details, anchor charms and come in shades of red, white and blue. Look for shoes that don’t have too much going on – you don’t want to look like you’re wearing a flag on your feet.

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so i’m 16 and friday i’m going to my friends halloween party, guys and girls. I wanted to be something simple: a race car girl

so i was gonna wear a tanktop that says roadway assistance or whatever then a high waisted skirt and fishnet stockings with heels and a hat (it says lincoln on it with the car symbol) and im gonna get a checkered flag ..

does that sound stupid or good?

what else can i add?

THANK YOU.

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The two kids next door broke into my car. My son had accidentally unlocked it when he played with the keys. I had left my wallet in my glovebox as we had intended to run right out an hour later. Items removed from my car were 2 Ipods, 1 bottle of perfume, 1 asthma rescue inhaler (3/4 empty) and all the cash from my wallet which was about 150 bucks. We live out in the boonies, and my husband had caught the kids in our driveway, then an hour later noticed the items missing. A police report was filed, but as we did not SEE the girls in the car, there was no proof. This morning at 7am I saw the girls mother walking up our steps, I observed her dropping an envelope on my mat and leave right after. I found my 2 Ipods in the envelope. This tells me she caught her kids with my stuff. My question is, do I approach the mother and ask for the rest of my items and cash? Or do I call the police and report what I saw? The mother is a single mom, her car was repoed, so she is in bad shape. Tips?

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A Killer Tactic You Can Use Right Now Which Would Make Girls Choose You Over Better Looking Guys

We all know that most women tend to prefer good looking guys who are loaded with money and are successful. Let’s not deny the fact that yes women are attracted towards good looking successful guys but let’s also not deny the fact that it’s not difficult to make them overlook the physical aspects and make them choose you over any other good looking guy out there. Well it might seem as if it’s impossible but not until you know this. Read on to discover how you can make women choose you over any other good looking guy using this simple unique trick which works every single time.

You don’t need a miracle- Most guys feel that there is absolutely no way women would choose an average Joe over a great looking rich guy but guess what? They do. Women do choose average Joes provided that these average Joes know what it actually takes to impress women the right way.

Here it is- What is the single most important thing women want from men? Well there are several misconceptions and myths on this topics but the fact is the way you treat them and make them feel. You see women do like men with power but can’t stand men who treat them like hell and make them feel bad about themselves. All humans like to feel good about themselves and if you can be the person who can make her feel good about herself than there is absolutely no way she would choose anyone else over you.

Make sure you don’t over do it- Make sure she feels great around you and in your company. Make her feel like something special but make sure you don’t become the door mat doing so as she would reject you in that case. Keep a good mix and act according to her reactions.

What you don’t know yet- Ever tried to wonder what’s in a woman’s mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Do you know there are some secrets women don’t want men to know but men absolutely must know these secrets in order to succeed with women? Read on to discover some of the most “Shocking Secrets” women don’t want men to know- 9 Most Shocking Secrets Women don’t want men to know

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