I have this cousin that is an incredibly sharp-tongued, confident/cocky, audacious and intelligent. Eg, She stole an item from my room a while back like it was something of hers and it got me thinking again tonight because until this day i haven’t figured how to handle her conniving ways.
I coincidentally found the same expensive hat my mum had bought me(which i took quite a fond liking to) displayed in her room and i asked her if it was mine(i am sure that it was and is cos she mentioned she had liked it) .. she replies in a very cool manner .. "No i bought that".. and i asked her again was she sure and she nodded on like it was nothing at all. I didn’t believe her of coarse but i didn’t want to push it. She does these kinds of thing’s to me all the time and then tells me i need to be more demanding, i hate that my kindness is so often mistaken for weakness. What should i do ? I’ve tried confronting her but at the end she still makese me feel like an idiot door mat.

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I wrote it myself. Here goes. It’s called:

"Cheese"

I love cheese,
although it makes me sneeze.

I will steal all the cheese from the rats,
and smash them on my door mat.

If it makes me fat,
I will hit myself with a bat.

Cheese is so good,
when you’re posted up in the hood.

If you don’t like cheese,
you bes believe!

Hope you guys liked it (:

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I think she left me for another guy, and I’m sad cuz we had so many special times and i think we both put a lot of effort, how long do u think it will take for that relationship to turn sour, I truly believe that time will be my avenger , because she left me heart broken and from what people tell me she could care less, and I’m like " I gave u my all and at the end it never mattered . I wasn’t a door mat for her though

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I’ve been with a guy for two weeks. We had knew each others a little before going out (two years before seeing each others again). We had a very strong connexion when we re-met.. but he told me he wasn’t available for any engagement because he will be travelling around. I broke up our casual relashionship before getting hurt, and he proposed friendship, which I turned off. Later on though, we’ve seen each other and I told him that after some thoughs, it would be great to be his friend and to hear from him whenever he’d feel like it.
It has been two weeks and I don’t have any of his news..

First I feel like he used me as a proverbial door mat since he ‘didn’t wanted to get serious’, but as I really acted quickly in ending the casual relashionship and didn’t asked for some affection or attention afterwords. I hope to have saved some of my pride in his eyes…

Do you think it is the case?

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My guy and I live together. He has a 22 year old step daughter who doesn’t like me. She and I used to get along and I thought things were going quite well until he told me that she called me a door mat to his face.

She doesn’t live with us (thank goodness) but she’s just so jealous of me and because of the things she has said about me, I don’t like her or ever want her around.

Tomorrow is my guys birthday and he still has to move alot of his things into our apartment. I have been asking him for months when he is going to do this. I just found out that, he is going to his old place on his birthday to start moving his things over here. When I questioned him this morning about it, he said he’d have to ask his daughter first. Now I’m mad. I thought it was his idea to just go over and move furniture etc, but it seems like she has made plans for his birthday and of course, I’m not included.

Is it my right to feel upset about this? I am beginning to think I’m just as jealous as her
I don’t think he has any plans on leaving me at anytime. He is in fact, very dedicated to me. Maybe this is his way of trying to keep things on an even keel so to speak. The thing is, I see it as him telling me half truths and it bothers me.

Btw, leaving him because of extra baggage isn’t the solution…I tried to make a go of things with his step daughter and as far as I’m concerned, she is the one who doesn’t want the relationship to work. She feels as though I am someone to compete with and I won’t buy into her little games. He on the other hand, should always be honest with me.

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Ladies…What is she doing? She has been online dating and meeting up with guys for a couple weeks. She still visits to see our two sons, and to get sex from me. She says that she is messed up and wants to stop. She was going to counseling, but cancelled her last appointment this week. I was paying her car and health insurance as well as letting her use my computer and my laundry room. All of that has been removed as I feel like a door mat. The sad part is that I love her more than ever, still believe in her, but she is driving me nuts!!! I have not yet restricted her from our two sons. How patient should I be and what should I do?

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Ok here I go, I really want a boyfried to love me for me and treat me like a human being as my ex seemed to treat me like a door mat, any ideas where abouts I will find one in or around Bexleyheath, Kent, England? Aged around 23-26?

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well ive getting over her and have gotten over her and we have a special friendship. we also made an agreement. You see I dont mind hanging out and havin fun but i told her if I am going to pay for the meal or the movie ( she goes to school and doesnt always have money) then consider it a date. but I stipulated that if she likes some other dude or bangs some other dude she should let me know because I feel it aint fair to me to offer to pay for her dinner or movie ticket if she is off with another dude. let him pay for a movie or dinner im not a door mat and u aint gonna use me. she totally agreed and said she understood. but last night she is like all dont buy me nothing no more and acts like she never ever remembered making the agreement. what is up with her also a part 2 to this

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He replied :put the house up for sale
we will both live here until home is sold
once home is sold we will file for a divorce
we will go our own ways
i said two years of failing watching you lay in bed for 104 days out of 1 year for you were depressed i tried to be supportive and understanding
the next year eight months of no employment then got rehiredand was scolded when using incomepaycheck to pay bills.his reply ?you dont like me so i figured why try -i begged him to see a counsler which he wouldnt,then four hours later he states: well,do you want to both give it an hinest try
or ditch it and go
i replied i dont know what to say you already gave me alot to digest this morning,then it was like a count down till it was time for him to go to work.
i dont like the person hes become corrections has a way of changing people
i dont appreciate being the door mat
i wanted to be loved and charished but by the 7th year of marriage it began to unravel.
ive been stolen from and liedto

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says she feels numb inside. I have done everything for this girl met her at my mom’s funeral and thought it was destiny. This was in Nov 2005. She lived in a bad neighborhood but was content I suppose. I took her and her 13 yr old daughter and gave them a life like a queen. I gave her evrything I could and moved 3 times for her to better homes now my money is tight and she is slowly pushing my buttons. I gave all for love now I will pay the price. I took a chance and I will have lost everything after all this my Mom would be so upset with me. I will have nothing to offer anyone now after I finally decide to file for divorce. I am scared to. She stays in bed until noon and takes alot of pills. She does not have to work but says she is tired and does not want me to use her as her door mat any more.
All I ever did was expect super and my lunch for work and for her not to go to bars without me. Otherwise she went shooping etc. She even picks on my pet cat now. I cant have it up stairs..

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