I don’t mind doing it…but he has done none since he moved in a week ago. He is fine with doing it. I am just doing everything around the house I can b/c I am off work for awhile. I want to be good to him,……but I don’t want to end up a door mat.
I saw Bessie Bardot. She used to go to my church when she was young. I ministerd to her then and she to me. And also we did some mutual ministering a month ago. Apparenlty her sleeping with other men was due to her husband treating her like a door mat.
Do some men like submissive, push over, door mat women?
my rabbit eats wall paper and the door mat. She always has access to meadow hay so its not a lack of hay.
She also does lots of big wet poos.
If hay isnt the isue what is?
My husband walked out on me and our two young children. His mom and sister accused me of doing something that I absolutly did not do. They use me as their scapegoat and door mat. They gave him an ultimatium,either he leaves me or they don’t have nothing to do with him. I understand if he loved me he would stand up for me, and would have not left. He would have called his children, or seen them if he really cared about them. Yet, he left them to the dust too. His actions have proved to me that he never loved us, not even after six years of being with one another. Why is it that his controlling mother and sister are more important then his family with his wife and children? How can I get over this? I am in process of divorce, but love him and miss him deaply.
My husband stays sober for months, however every once in a while he has the urge to drink, leaves the house for a few days to party, and when the party is over he’s crying how he made a mistake and I always take him back. But now I’m tired of his routine, I love him, but I don’t want to be used as a door mat. I want him to stop drinking and he does for a few months but then gets the urge and really goes on a drinking binge. Any suggestions?
in a relationship what subtle things can i do to keep it alive e.g what things can i do and say for my man that will keep it alive but not turn me into a door mat!! cause every relationship i have i get taken for granted and im determined not to let this happen again…. all answers will be appreciated.. thanx xxx
in a relationship what subtle things can i do to keep it alive e.g what things can i do and say for my man that will keep it alive but not turn me into a door mat!! cause every relationship i have i get taken for granted and im determined not to let this happen again…. all answers will be appreciated.. thanx xxx
Like let you borrow lots of money, give you jobs, give you compliments, and really look after you.
Kind of like a door mat but because he loves you 
in a relationship what subtle things can i do to keep it alive e.g what things can i do and say for my man that will keep it alive but not turn me into a door mat!! cause every relationship i have i get taken for granted and im determined not to let this happen again…. all answers will be appreciated.. thanx xxx
