bit of a daft question but please answer lol adults only?
in a relationship what subtle things can i do to keep it alive e.g what things can i do and say for my man that will keep it alive but not turn me into a door mat!! cause every relationship i have i get taken for granted and im determined not to let this happen again…. all answers will be appreciated.. thanx xxx
3 Responses
echolaine
27 Aug 2010
Jessie
27 Aug 2010
hmmm…spice everything up a bit. (grope him when he doesn’t expect it. lol
have more sexy time together.
make an effort to look good for him.
talk more…communicate more.
have him do things for you. literally and sexually.heheh
you take charge.
tell him how u feel
main thing spice ur sex life up a bit to "keep it alive"
hope it helps.
class510
27 Aug 2010
The two answers already provided are good. The interaction depends a lot on the personalities of the people involved. Personally, I like a person with whom I can share intelligent conversations with. Being a bit sexy now and then does not hurt either. Explore each others interests in a non-threatening and nonjudgmental way. This will help you understand the other person and see how well you really fit with each other.
Have conversations around meaningful topics. I asked my guy "What worries you most about our relationship" and "What do you want life to look like when you’re 75". We had some great discussions – he asked me how I felt about that stuff and came up with some of his own. This was during our first six months of dating – we’ve got married last summer after two years. We only had conversations like these once a month or so, but it sure made it easier to talk about stuff when it came up because we had practice talking about some more in depth things when there wasn’t any stress or anger.
Also, we celebrated each other’s accomplishments with work and family. If I had a good day, I opened a bottle of champagne and told him all about it. Life isn’t just about the guy’s success! Good luck!