Are you a door mat? Someone that gets stepped on by others?
21 Responses
Tash
08 Feb 2010
Rob™
08 Feb 2010
Heck no.
New York Diva Pa
08 Feb 2010
No.. If I am getting ran over.. it won’t be an easy task.
babypaige93
08 Feb 2010
yeah, im a huge push over, and i never defend myself
BunnyButt
08 Feb 2010
LOL if I let them
Knightmare
08 Feb 2010
No, if they try to step on me I’d just punch them in the face.
Bella
08 Feb 2010
hell no… dont let people push me around
Google Me!
08 Feb 2010
Oh yeah,I even let them wipe there feet off on me!
henri
08 Feb 2010
used to be- been changing…
banyoqueen
08 Feb 2010
no, i dont allow anyone to do that
San Toro has Boo
08 Feb 2010
No.
Kat
08 Feb 2010
I used to be but not anymore.
Soggy Soap.
08 Feb 2010
yep. But I’m one of those prickly ones that you cant really step on without shoes. Muahaha.
melanie {SPACS}
08 Feb 2010
No, I’m the person walking through the door.
Love sux Munkey
08 Feb 2010
yes. yes,I am. And I wish I could say no. but I can’t. And I don’t know why.
God Bless you.
-Hannah
how $hweeet. `
08 Feb 2010
lol at times yes, unfortunately..
RIVERKID
08 Feb 2010
No, and I don’t think anyone else should be either. ———————————
BJ girl
08 Feb 2010
not in the past 3 yrs….I learned to get away from the ‘stepper’
slklein1957
08 Feb 2010
Used to be more than I am now. I stand up for myself more now than I used to, but there is still room for improvement.
purplepartygirrl
08 Feb 2010
Sometimes. It depends on the situation. If I’m financially invested, more than likely. If I’m emotionally invested, it depends on the extent of the "stepping on". If I’m not invested at all, watch out; I can be QUITE vicious. On the other hand, that also applies when I’m heavily invested in some situations… I don’t know about anyone else, but my life is too dynamic to have a blanket statement for that question.
Very thought-provoking question though! As usual! ;}~
jonds
08 Feb 2010
No and I don’t step on other either
I used to be, and to a large extent, I still am- but I have come a long way.
I used to go out of my way, giving to others, because I thought it would make them like me more- or that eventually they would give in return. Unfortunately, most people don’t work this way.
If someone asks you to do something, like- say… pay for lunch, unless they’re dirt-poor and only asking on a one-off, turn to them, smile and say "Okay… but it’s your turn next time!!"
Keep-up with this.
You give a little, you take a little.
I have had a lot of trouble with being walked all-over by men in relationships and I am really cluing in now, to when they are trying to manipulate or use me. And I dont put up with it anymore. It made me feel like crap.
If I have to sacrifice my wants and needs for someone, I expect that they will be a good enough friend to do it in return.
If not, theyre a user and a loser and need to be told to shove it and get lost.